marriage systems My Husband Doesn’t Think in Systems. Here’s Why That’s a Good Thing. 🤪On marriage, mental load, and why two systems-brained people would probably need a divorce lawyer. In a recent post, I said “more on that later” when talking about how my brain works differently than my husband’s. This is the later. Thinking in systems often looks like naturally creating
life systems I Thought I Was Bad at Everyday Life. Turns Out I Just Think in Systems. 🧠On groceries, anxiety, and finally understanding how my brain actually works. Before we start, a quick note. Yes, I just launched this blog. Yes, I’ve been posting frequently. There are a few reasons for that. It’s new. It’s exciting. It’s the start of a new year,
writing systems On Doing This Anyway. 🦸♀️Bandwidth, timing, and starting before you're ready. It's 12:30pm on December 31, 2025. Most people are mentally checked out. Year wrapped. Inbox quiet. One foot already in next week. I’m sitting here finally doing the thing people have been telling me to do for
life systems January 1. 🗓️On Starting the Year as You Are I don’t have resolutions this year. I have a short list of things I’m no longer pretending are temporary. There’s no clean slate here. Just the same life I had yesterday, plus the awareness that waiting for “after things settle
